Who are We?
Who are We?
Nothing was more tedious for me as a student than the requirement to memorize dates and events of the past. What’s so important about the past, anyway? As an avid reader of science fiction, I was much more interested in the future.
No one has been more surprised than I, here in the latter part of my life, that I have written two history books.
Events of the past, I have decided, are important, but they are the surface of history. Depth of understanding what happened comes with examining the people of the time, the decisions they made, the actions they took or didn’t take, and the situations/beliefs that formed them.
Events are sterile. We are hard wired to care about people.
The people of our past are stories that we can identify with and connect to even across time. We need to understand what made them who they were. Hearing their experiences, their wisdom, and even their mistakes teach us what is important and possible.
Women’s stories are particularly valuable because women seem to slide through the cracks of history. A circle of women in Birmingham’s 1960s braved their fears and the intense pressures of society to break through racial barriers and effect real change. They were not the power players in their world. It was (and to some extent, still is) a man’s world. Learning how they created leadership roles inspired me. Today, women are again being constrained. It is especially important that young girls, struggling to understand who they are and who they could be, hear these stories.
Both of my history books are about civil rights days in Birmingham, Alabama. Writing and researching them has changed me in profound ways I can’t articulate yet.
But it has become too clear that I am living days that will be studied by future historians. Already, many books have been written. But the historical events and the people influencing them are still in play. And we have no idea what will happen.
Too many people have not heeded the warning that ignoring history dooms us to repeat it. That we are repeating it seems very clear.
The past is echoing.
Loudly.
Heartbreakingly.
Right now.
Deciding who we are in this moment is difficult because things are (as usual) complicated.
But we will be called on to decide anyway. This moment is tenuous (or exploding if you live in Ukraine or the Middle East), but even here in the US, the place that is supposed to be safe and a refuge for all, we must decide who we are and who the terrorists are.
Our president recently said, “You can’t give up what makes you who you are. If you give that up, then the terrorists win. And we can never let them win.” –
So, who are you? Who are we?
A month ago, if you had asked me “Who are you?” I would have rolled off a list of easy answers. But these days, daily events feel pivotal. And they are not just “over there.” They are here, next door, across the street and around the world. Suddenly, history is at the doorstep, asking us that question. I hope the answer is not just blowin’ in the wind.
Unfortunately, I understand what you mean. Thanks for sharing, Gay and sorry to take so long to reply. ~TK
Your point is so well made (and btw, having read both books, I highly recommend them)…. we live in scary times, but if we don’t study the history and learn…. my fears for the future generations only intensify.
Thanks Debra. It is good to have like minds in these times. I appreciate you and the SG as well. ~TK
We live in scary times and if we learned from history, we might not have the turmoil in the world, and certainly not the instability we are living in the US today. Thanks for a thought-provoking post.
And thank you Kathryn for taking the time to comment. As another friend says, We are in this together. ~TK
What is it about humans that prevents us from learning from the past and not repeating the mistakes of the past? It seemed for a time we had made such great progress in true freedom for all. Now it’s obvious so much of that was all smoke and mirrors. It’s sad and scary, and it fills me with despair, frustration, and anger.
Lois, I couldn’t have expressed that better and wish I had a real answer for your question. It seems we humans are capable of great thoughts and actions and equally of supreme stupidity and horrifying actions. My hope is that it is not actually equal, that there are more of the first than the latter. The problem is the minority can wreck havoc. Even one person with the right “tools.” ~TK