One More Blog About Twilight
or I Know, I Can’t Believe We’re Still Talking About It Either
by Bethany Maines
A friend of mine and I were comparing notes on the Twilight
series, which she loved and I mildly enjoyed enough to make it through the
first book and then wikipedia the plots of the others so I could find out what
happened in the end. Our
discussion centered on the fact that much of the media portrays Bella as a
passive, whiny person who contrasts poorly with the likes of Hermione, Buffy,
Katniss or Leia. My friend thought
that since Bella didn’t have super powers that she would never compare well in
any competition with Buffy et all.
I thought that while some of the media interpretation of her whininess
is undeserved, that Bella, super powers or not, just isn’t much of a strong
feminist role model. The argument
eventually concluded with, “Yeah, well, you know what’s feminist? Writing
whatever you want and not having to censor yourself because feminists won’t
like it.” Oh, snap. Point and
match.
series, which she loved and I mildly enjoyed enough to make it through the
first book and then wikipedia the plots of the others so I could find out what
happened in the end. Our
discussion centered on the fact that much of the media portrays Bella as a
passive, whiny person who contrasts poorly with the likes of Hermione, Buffy,
Katniss or Leia. My friend thought
that since Bella didn’t have super powers that she would never compare well in
any competition with Buffy et all.
I thought that while some of the media interpretation of her whininess
is undeserved, that Bella, super powers or not, just isn’t much of a strong
feminist role model. The argument
eventually concluded with, “Yeah, well, you know what’s feminist? Writing
whatever you want and not having to censor yourself because feminists won’t
like it.” Oh, snap. Point and
match.
But I think there’s another reason that Bella isn’t an
apples to apples comparison to Buffy, Hermione, or Leia. Each of those three happened upon love
while pursuing a greater cause.
They had epic events with some love. But Bella flipped that around – she fell in love and then
had a few epic events. And of those two scenario’s, which sounds more likely to
happen to your average teenager? I
don’t wonder that Bella resonates with a generation – falling in love, getting
depressed, getting back together, it’s all part and parcel of being a
teen.
apples to apples comparison to Buffy, Hermione, or Leia. Each of those three happened upon love
while pursuing a greater cause.
They had epic events with some love. But Bella flipped that around – she fell in love and then
had a few epic events. And of those two scenario’s, which sounds more likely to
happen to your average teenager? I
don’t wonder that Bella resonates with a generation – falling in love, getting
depressed, getting back together, it’s all part and parcel of being a
teen.
But… I just don’t like the decisions that Bella made. As a
kid I thought Eowyn (LoTR), Esther (Bible), and Leia (Star Wars) were
awesome. Smart, strong, sexy women
with a rebellious streak and a thing for royalty (except for Leia, who of
course, liked scruffy looking nerf herders). My parents went out of their way to point out good role
models because they wanted me to know that women could do whatever they
wanted. But what if I had wanted
to be married at 18 to my on-again off-again boyfriend like Bella did? That would not have gone over well with
anyone in my family except for my really sexist grandmother. If my best friend
in high-school had been Bella, I would have been fairly horrified at her
decision making skills, and chalked it up to an a broken family and low
self-esteem.
kid I thought Eowyn (LoTR), Esther (Bible), and Leia (Star Wars) were
awesome. Smart, strong, sexy women
with a rebellious streak and a thing for royalty (except for Leia, who of
course, liked scruffy looking nerf herders). My parents went out of their way to point out good role
models because they wanted me to know that women could do whatever they
wanted. But what if I had wanted
to be married at 18 to my on-again off-again boyfriend like Bella did? That would not have gone over well with
anyone in my family except for my really sexist grandmother. If my best friend
in high-school had been Bella, I would have been fairly horrified at her
decision making skills, and chalked it up to an a broken family and low
self-esteem.
I know, I know, Twilight is just a fiction novel – not a
how-to manual for life. It’s a
romantic story that features star-crossed true-love and a happy ending. But if I ever have any offspring of the
female persuasion I won’t be pointing out Bella; I’ll be pointing at Stephenie
Meyer and saying, “Look how she wrote a book that touched the lives of millions
of people – you can do that to!”
how-to manual for life. It’s a
romantic story that features star-crossed true-love and a happy ending. But if I ever have any offspring of the
female persuasion I won’t be pointing out Bella; I’ll be pointing at Stephenie
Meyer and saying, “Look how she wrote a book that touched the lives of millions
of people – you can do that to!”
Bethany Maines is the author of Bulletproof Mascara, Compact With the Devil and Supporting the Girls. Catch up with her at www.bethanymaines.com or check out the new Carrie Mae youtube video.